my name is spenser brassard

I teach women the mind-body approach to getting pregnant, without it taking over their lives.

mama bear, you’VE landed here for a reason.

Imagine a path to pregnancy where you drop the “good girl” act and become the woman who calls in her baby by living fully, not perfectly.

Our culture brainwashes women into thinking the stricter they are, the better their shot at conceiving. Diet harder. Calm down. Shrink yourself…🙄 But the data doesn’t lie — and it proves the opposite: Harvard’s mind-body medicine team shows women who practice self-compassion, listen to their bodies (not the internet), and are held in community are 55% more likely to get pregnant.

That’s the work I do — and it’s the opposite of the fertility hamster wheel you’ve been running on.

Instead of:

  • Making yourself smaller → I teach you to take up space and walk into a room with confidence, baby or not.

  • Waiting for a gold star on your fertility to-do list → I show you how to claim your worth now and receive what you desire without needing to perfect it.

  • Putting your life on hold until you see two pink lines → I help you hit play again — career moves, Italy trips, creative projects and all — because these are the very things that make you more magnetic to your baby.

Here’s the irony: when you stop obsessing over the “rules” and start choosing presence, pleasure, and worthiness today… your body opens up, your nervous system regulates, and your fertility naturally rises.

This is a win-win. For your life. For your future baby. For your partner. For the woman you’re becoming. And I’m thrilled you found your way here.

What people are saying…

Don’t just take my word for it. Hear from real women TTC what makes this approach to your baby so magical.

Work With Spenser

course library

There’s no rush. Go at your own-pace in one of my online fertility courses.

From mind-body tools, to fertility mindset, to the energetics of fertility and makin’ babies. Learn everything you need to strengthen your mind, body and spirit for conception in one of my courses.

Fertility Mind-Body Mastery

Fertility Mind-Body Mastery is the most intimate way to work with me — a 9-month deep dive where we unravel perfectionism, stop treating your body like a project, and finally create the safety and self-trust your nervous system needs for pregnancy (and life). This isn’t a quick fix or a pep talk; it’s a full-body reclamation of your wholeness, with coaching, community, and the kind of raw, real support that actually changes the way you live.

permission membership

Permission is for the woman who’s sick of hustling for worth, chasing fixes, and feeling like her body’s the problem. For just $11/month, you’ll get weekly Permission Slips that cut through the fertility industries BS, a monthly live Q&A with me for unfiltered coaching, and a private crew of women who actually get it.

Ways to Build Trust

The Fertile Ground Podcast

Spenser is such a gift!

“I came across this podcast by sheer accident but I’m so glad that I did! My husband and I experienced a miscarriage and I have felt so lost. Going through this I felt so alone until I found Spenser’s podcast. Hearing other reviews from women who have struggled on the fertility journey find peace and happiness in the process has made my heart feel full again. My mind feels more at peace. My heart feels like it is mending. I have more trust in my body again which I didn’t think I would ever gain that back. I’m excited about my journey moving forward in finding peace, happiness and pleasure no matter what the outcome.”

My new book:

Fertile Ground

now available for purchase and is already a bestseller!

Fertile Ground is the book that every TTC (trying to conceive) woman needs on her bedside table to navigate the high highs and low lows. TTC women need guidance from someone who’s been there and who gets it. They need stories of hope and encouragement from other women on the journey. Most of all, they need permission to try a new approach to getting pregnant—one that is gentler on your mind, body, and spirit, and that is proven to increase fertility. This is exactly what Fertile Ground offers.

  • “I'm an OBGYN and I knew I needed to move away from my medical mindset."

    “When I found Spenser, I had just miscarried at 8 weeks after an IVF transfer. It was such an unbelievably difficult time. I’m an OBGYN physician in my 40’s and I knew I needed to move away from my medical mindset. Spenser’s coaching changed my fertility journey, and my life. I write this on the eve of my induction day at 38 weeks pregnant. I have every risk factor for several complications in pregnancy and I have not developed one. I am still amazed at how the universe is working with me.”

    - CINDY A.

  • “We were waiting for my period to come, but for the first time ever... it didn't show up."

    “I joined the program right when I felt ready to soak it in. It cracked my heart wide open and nothing but love, growth and absolute self-compassion came out of it. We had decided we would try our first round of IVF this October and were waiting for my period to come so that I could start with the treatment, but for the first time ever… it didn’t show up. I’m now 6 weeks pregnant.”

    - BEA E.

  • "The most life changing thing I've ever done."

    “I can honestly say that working with Spenser was one of the most life-changing things I’ve ever done. It helped me with so many aspects of my life, not just my fertility. I am leaving the program pregnant naturally, after 2 failed IVF attempts, but I was already happier and more at peace in my life even before the pregnancy happened.”

    — Tammy P.

MEET THE FOUNDER

Spenser Brassard

HYPE WOMAN
FERTILITY COACH
AUTHOR
PODCAST HOST

Hi — I’m Certified Life Coach, Spenser Brassard.

I was stuck on the TTC cycle for 8 years. And like you, I was determined to try every-single-thing I possibly could to make it happen.

I thought if I just sacrificed enough, then I’d be “deserving” of a baby. It wasn’t until I discovered the mind-body approach that I realized… Getting pregnant wasn’t about restricting. It was about EXPANDING. 

My approach is different from everything you've heard about why couples struggle to get pregnant. No more diets. No more shoulding. No more trying to find out what's wrong with you. There is a different way.

It's time to bridge your mind with your body, so you can create your baby from a place of confidence and ease.

8+

500K

70%

YEARS I STRUGGLED TO CONCEIVE, TO FINALLY GET PREGNANT NATURALLY.

DOWNLOADS OF THE FERTILE GROUND PODCAST

OF WOMEN BECOME PREGNANT ONE YEAR AFTER WORKING WITH ME.

Start to make sense of what’s happening inside your body:

Forget quick fixes or shame-y “tips.” This quiz shows what your nervous system is doing (your coping mode), why it’s not your fault, and the first step that sets women free — and often pregnant.

Feeling stuck in the TTC loop?
The Fertility Freedom Quiz gently reveals your unique coping mode—how your nervous system protects you under pressure. Discover why it’s not your fault, what keeps you in the cycle, and the first step toward clarity, relief, and a real path to pregnancy. A compassionate mirror to help you move forward with confidence and hope.